I was at Cafe Rio the other day with Sarah picking up up my free meal (thanks mom), so it was a pretty good day! I'm at the register paying and I have Sarah on my hip, wallet and keys shoved in my back pocket, food in one hand and drink cup in my teeth. The cute Cafe Rio girl says hola to Sarah. I take the cup out of my mouth and ask Sarah to say "hola" to the girl, she does. So cute. Then the girl asks if I want help out with my food. I smile and say no, they have a line of customers and I can manage, I'm supermom right?, yeah right :) I bite onto the cup again as I shlep Sarah and I and all of our stuff over to the drink station to get my diet coke. I put the bag of food down as I fill up my cup and I hear a man behind me say, "Do you want help out to your car, it looks like you have your hands full?" I glance at the man and with a smile that says "you're right, I do need help after all, I'm going to swallow my pride" I say thank you and he picks up my food as I scramble to put a lid on my cup and grab a straw and napkins. I hoist Sarah up further on my hip and we walk out to the car, which was right in front. I put the drink down on the hood, put Sarah down and turn to the man with my now free hands to take the food. And that's when I finally get a good look at him. He only has one arm.
I quickly smile and thank him sincerely for his help, he smiles back and heads back in to the restaurant and as we head home with our food I think about this. He probably lives his life most days thinking how nice it would be if someone helped him out, and knowing for himself what it is like to have only one free hand how hard it is. He probably has to ask for help a lot, even if he rather not. What a wonderful act of service he gave me but more importantly a wonderful lesson in recognizing your strengths and weaknesses and using your abilities to help others, putting aside pride and giving selfless service. I had no free hands but he certainly had one free and very capable one. Makes me think what more can I, and should I do with mine.
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